How to Travel Without Your Family’s Support
You’re dreaming of travel. They’re not. When your vision doesn’t match your family’s, it can feel lonely, confusing, and guilt-filled. But it doesn’t mean you have to give it up.
When You Want to Travel But They Don’t
You’re dreaming of new countries, time-zone-jumping freedom, family adventures, or just something different.
But your family? Not so much.
- Maybe your partner is risk-averse.
- Maybe your parents think travel is irresponsible.
- Maybe your kids are clinging to their bedrooms and routines.
So now you’re asking the question that’s not in any Lonely Planet guide:
Can I still go if no one supports me?
Short answer: Yes.
But let’s talk about how.
Step 1: Recognise the Dream Is Yours, Not Theirs
It’s gutting when people close to you don’t share your excitement. You show them Google Maps pins and travel forums, and they just look… tired.
If you’re here, you’ve likely heard things like:
“That’s unrealistic.”
“You’re just chasing an escape.”
“What about school? Safety? Money?”
And let’s be honest, maybe you even asked those questions.
But the split becomes clear: what excites you makes them anxious. What feels like freedom to you feels like chaos to them.
That doesn’t make anyone wrong. It just makes you different.
And honouring that difference? That’s the first brave step.
Step 2: Define What Travel Means to You
Travel isn’t just about plane tickets.
It’s about purpose.
Take a moment and finish this sentence for yourself:
“I want to travel because ________.”
Your answer might be:
To reset your life rhythm
To model adventure and adaptability for your kids
To heal, grow, or shed something heavy
To find out what you’re capable of outside the 9–5 and two weeks’ PTO
When your family doesn’t get it, come back to this why. It’s your anchor.
Bonus journaling prompt:
“If no one else came with me, what would I still go see or become?”
Step 3: Coping with Guilt and Emotional Resistance
Let’s be real: The hardest part of going might not be logistics, it’s leaving the emotional expectations behind.
This can look like:
Partner guilt: Feeling selfish for wanting more
Parental guilt: Hearing, “How could you take the kids away?”
Cultural guilt: Feeling like you’re abandoning family, tradition, or roles
And it can feel like betrayal, even if no one says that out loud.
Here’s what to remember:
Guilt doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It means you care.
You don’t have to hate home to leave it.
Your life was never meant to be voted on by committee.
Set boundaries with love.
Set goals with clarity.
And set yourself free with intention.
Step 4: Build Momentum When No One’s Cheering
You may not get a “congrats” balloon from your inner circle. So build your own energy.
Here’s how:
1. Micro routines
Set aside 30 minutes each week to research, budget, learn Spanish, build your gear list, something that moves you forward. That consistency builds belief.
2. Join online communities
Worldschoolers, solo moms, digital nomad families, they exist. And they’ll remind you you’re not nuts. Find your “tribe” that’s gets you.
3. Track the wins
Small ones. Like “sold something on Vinted.” Or “got the app password to work.” Celebrate like they’re mile markers, because they are.
4. Document the mess
Start a journal, a blog, or IG Stories. Share the tears, the tantrums, the tiny triumphs. This will not only help others — it will help you remember why you kept going.
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Step 5: Your Freedom Doesn’t Require Consensus
Here’s the hardest truth, and the most liberating one:
You don’t need anyone’s permission to become who you were meant to be.
It’s amazing when your family joins the vision. But it’s still valid and powerful, when they don’t.
Travel won’t always be easy. But it will always teach you something.
And if you’re reading this, chances are you’re already halfway out the door emotionally if not geographically.
Me and Tania felt this way for a few years before we finally made the plunge.
It’s why our home never felt like home and was half decorated.
it’s why we never made new friend connections or made the effort.
So I would say go. And trust our direction and also that love can stretch across oceans, even when understanding can’t.
You’re Not Alone
If you’re prepping for a trip with no one cheering you on, send us a message. We’ve been there and we’ll cheer you on anyway.
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